life doesn’t end when you don’t know what to pursue.

zea
3 min readJun 25, 2024

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If you’re struggling to find your path or feel lost about your future, this is for you.

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Life doesn’t end when you don’t know what to pursue or just because you’re uncertain about your direction. It doesn’t end when you can’t answer the question, “What do you plan to become?”

I’ll tell you what — it’s perfectly okay not to have everything figured out. I, too, was once a child brimming with dreams. I even dreamt of becoming a doctor! But as time passed, the flames of my dreams flickered and dimmed, and I found myself adrift, passionless, and directionless.

You will find your way back. Trust me. Even if you’re not doing well in the present, it doesn’t mean you will remain like that forever. You might not have found your purpose yet and that’s okay! Life is a series of ebbs and flows, and sometimes the path only becomes clear as you move forward, step by uncertain step.

Just because it seems like everyone else has their lives figured out, doesn’t mean you should rush yourself. It’s alright to take your time. It’s okay to explore, to change your mind, and to chase different interests until you discover what truly sets your soul on fire. There is no prescribed path you must follow. You just have to keep moving forward and trust in yourself. Believe in your ability to find your way, and you will.

There will be days when you feel as if you’re walking through a fog, with no clear sense of direction. Each day will seem to blend into the next, and the weight of expectations — both your own and others — will press heavily upon you. But there will come a day when behind that fog lies a beautiful future. After those foggy days, you will be able to breathe freely.

Everyone has their struggles, doubts, and moments of uncertainty. Life is not always as straightforward as it seems from the outside. What’s important to remember is that your worth is not tied to your achievements or the clarity of your path. You are valuable simply because you exist, because you bring something unique to this world that no one else can.

The pressure to have everything figured out can be overwhelming, especially when people around you often equate success with certainty and clear goals. But success is not a one-size-fits-all concept. It can be found in the smallest of victories, in the growth that comes from facing challenges, and in the courage to continue moving forward even when the path is unclear or the road is too dark to see.

Others might have already boarded the train of their life, while you may still find yourself waiting at the station. But that’s perfectly okay! It means you have the patience to await what lies ahead.

Allow yourself to dream without limitations! Have patience with each part of this journey, knowing that every step, no matter how small, is bringing you closer to where you’re meant to be.

So, take a deep breath. Let go of the need to have all the answers right now. Trust in the process, and trust in yourself. Your path will unfold in its own time, and you will find your way.

Come what may.

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zea
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